I nearly felt sorry for him except when I realized he married a dominate and rich female and handed his b~~~~ to her father, pledging he`ll comply with all her demands, give her freedom to work , run projects and be the entrepreneur women she always wanted.

instead of staying poor, single and happy or at least marrying a poorer women who would look up to him and make him less miserable than he is today.

like a broken record for 20 years, same s~~~, same fights, but this time I dont give a rat ass anymore. I Dont even bother trying to calm them down or try to solve their bulls~~~ fights, wouldve left this long time ago, if not for my current situation. but at least Im more aware now, and better than before.

another remind NOT to get married!

. Still having ptsd from that day

loool ptsd you say! perhaps u should consider suing for damages, or forget it, ur cousin will sure need all the assets he can in case his wife woke up one day and decided she wants a divorce! 🙂

These are my two rules to live by if you have to get entangled with women in any fashion.

1. DO NOT live with a female. Visit her, she visits you, DO NOT LIVE WITH HER!!

2. DO NOT impregnate.

In 99% of unhappy men cases it was because he violated rule #1 / #2 or both.  I personally knew a co-worker that had his wife leave him at 71 and took off back to Germany.  Let that sink in for a bit..

. 1. DO NOT live with a female. Visit her, she visits you, DO NOT LIVE WITH HER!! 2. DO NOT impregnate.

Couldn’t agree more.

As for me I’m a muslim so living with a women other than my sister my mom is forbidden.

Impregnating a women out of wedlock is also forbidden

And I’ll never get married so I’m safe 🙂

Not that I’m  committed to Islamic values but when it comes to those two rules u mentions I’m a dedicated monk 🙂

… another remind NOT to get married!

Received invitation to wedding of a long time friend to be held in late May. It was one of those invitations with the small piece of ecru colored tissue paper included & rsvp … I’ve never understood what that tissue paper is for. Possibly to blot up the tears of the groom after it dawns on him what he’s done.  It’s been about 10 years since I’ve attended one of those things and he is friend since childhood so told him I’d try and be there.

Just received note from him and it said … due to the fact that my fiancée feels that the original country church will be too small, the wedding has now been moved to a larger building in the nearby city of .. where will it end?  I sense that there’s not much I can say to him at this stage. I guess I’ll still go (for his sake) and endure the show.

Just received note from him and it said … due to the fact that my fiancée feels that the original country church will be too small, the wedding has now been moved to a larger building in the nearby city of .. where will it end? I sense that there’s not much I can say to him at this stage. I guess I’ll still go (for his sake) and endure the show.

she trapped him, its all over for him now, funny story, my EX GF ex fiance left her over something similar, he set a budget for the wedding stuff and she totally ignored that and went overboard, he went haywire p~~~ed over her dad, she didnt like that very much so she ended it.

at that time they passed him as the bad guy, but after I started getting intimate to her and her family I could finally see that he was sick of her bulls~~~, and had to unlink. thankfully we broke up before more damage is done but I knew at some point if I wanted to take the relationship to the next level Ill have to contact him to know his side of the story, and at the back of my mind I knew Ill hear stuff that I`m not gonna be very pleased about.

Men are hurt worse by this than women. Men must still come up with child support.

So that’s what women are looking for in a beta provider. A man who can be left at a moments notice, depending on her mood that day, and will be such a coward that he is afraid to stop working and let her and “her” baby rot.

I know one guy who did this. Went from 200k a year to nothing. Did this before the divorce was final. He paid minimal child support and had his son’s live with him half the time.

Two years later, despite living with him half the time and the boys being older teens, they still sided with their poor mother (who has been riding the c~~~’s hard since her meal ticket left).

You would think the boys would be more faithful to their fathers.

If you love children, don’t get married. It will break your heart in a way you never thought possible.

It will break your heart in a way you never thought possible.

I see this in my father every single day, his broken hearted, miserable and beaten down, Im his only son, me and him dont get along, cuz he was too busy working in my younger years so I adopted different values than him, and had to learn from experience.

in Christianity and Islam, in marriage, women are ordered to obey their husbands and swear allegiance to him, more than her own family. and I didn`t know why is that before, but now it makes perfect sense to me why god commanded that. this is the only way marriage can work, this is the only way marriage can work, given that the man is obeying his religious duties toward her as well in terms of treating her justly, providing for her and the kids etc.

I`m not here to promote religious values, but to me alot of values that we went by before are starting to make sense more and more.