MGTOW26 and taking the red pill this time around – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 22:14:26 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/page/437/#post-23146 <![CDATA[26 and taking the red pill this time around]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/page/437/#post-23146 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 21:20:09 +0000 element So a little bit about my situation and where I come from…Came up in the upper middle class, but had a set of parents that divorced around 5. My dad was a typical alpha. Football captain, international businessman…etc. Mom was your typical high school beauty queen. Never had to work hard in life to get what she wanted. Long story short they divorced and I was indoctrinated and subconsciously programmed to reject masculinity growing up. My dad would always tell me….wait until you reach 25 and then you’ll see. Well he was f~~~ing right. I mainly casually f~~~ed girls in school because I didn’t want to risk commitment and have to deal with the politics of a high school dating scenario. First commitment I made was to a smoking hot cheerleader with nice t~~~, a great ass and a killer tan. She dumped me in front of all of my friends at my best friends party. Sucked it up, was p~~~ed but made my way down to panama for Spring Break and f~~~ed around with some strange to get over it. Realized at that point I just didn’t want commitment and rather than pursuing college I took years off to travel the states, party, experiment with drugs and work. I eventually get tired of that and come home to re-enroll in college in pursuit of a career in law and begin running frequently, competing in marathons…etc. Well I decided it was time to reach out to old contacts and see what everyone was up to. A girl who I was somewhat of a friend with in highschool happened to be the target. I had concert tickets to a rock show in Philly and just flat out sent an invite to her. After a couple exchanges we found ourselves caught up in what many refer to as “the honeymoon phase” I was riding the high, while remaining blind to all things I didn’t want to see. We took trips, had great frequent sex and hung out for 5-6 months when out of nowhere she dumps her s~~~ on me. Tells me she needs space because she isn’t over her married professor that she f~~~ed for 3.5 years yada yada yada. I’m not a jealous dude and I didn’t really care about all that. I just wanted a female with similar interest who just happened to be really good looking and a fantastic lay to hang around for a bit. Well I get fed all the lines….”you’re my bestfriend now” “I still wanna take our trips and fulfill our plans for the spring.” …etc. I find myself completely confused, p~~~ed, hurt, baffled by all of this bulls~~~ so I decide to start looking for answers….after weeks and months of research….Here I am dudes and I couldn’t be happier. This place is a Godsend especially for a young dude like me who is still watching his friends get eaten alive all around him. Can’t tell you how appreciative I am for some of the advice and wisdom I’ve gained from this site.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23157 <![CDATA[Reply To: 26 and taking the red pill this time around]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23157 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 22:09:26 +0000 CPT Obvious Welcome element to MGTOW.  Just keep popping those red pills, pull up a chair and have a drink with us.

Thanks for your story.  Isn’t it interesting that women can keep it together for a few months for the honeymoon stage?  But it’s obvious that the emotion and drama keeps building up inside of them like a bad case of diarrhea until it finally erupts.

But hey, you can still be her “best friend” and entertain her, right?  Wrong.  We are going our own way.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23159 <![CDATA[Reply To: 26 and taking the red pill this time around]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23159 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 22:17:04 +0000 element Yeah its quite the phenomenon. Completely threw me for a spin. Of course my feminist mother caught wind of it and took her side. I needed to let her “breath” and be a real man and win her heart when it “wasn’t easy.” Bulls~~~. She does a check in on me so to speak every couple of weeks. Next time around I’m simply going to respond with a No, thanks.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23271 <![CDATA[Reply To: 26 and taking the red pill this time around]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23271 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 05:56:26 +0000 CPT Obvious
element wrote:

Next time around I’m simply going to respond with a No, thanks.

That’s the attitude.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23291 <![CDATA[Reply To: 26 and taking the red pill this time around]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/26-and-taking-the-red-pill-this-time-around/#post-23291 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 07:47:34 +0000 harpo-my-"SON" element, welcome to the forum, nice story. glad you found the right place. Yes I found it a blessing to find this therapeutic wonderland of male wit and wisdom also. Its easy to dump negative emotions here, and even easier to replace them with positive outlooks.  peace dude.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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